Loads of different parts to this question, but you won't encounter too much stress in a tropical paradise like Hawaii. It's a very chill place wherever you look! Also, everyone speaks English (or Japanese!). I think you try Maui, where you'll find the perfect mix of beach activities, cultural sights, and active outings like mountain-biking down a dormant volcano in Haleakala National Park. Try the Hotel Hana near the small town of Hana on Maui's east coast. Here a link with some more info: http://vacation.away.com/hotels/travel-ld-cid314935-kailua-hotelid791333-hotel-hana-maui-hotel-hotel.html